all virtues=other preoccupation

seeing how seeking our own wellbeing -  harmed others

harmed ourselves

embody positive ways of being

mind - training
reverse normal behaviour
other promotion - self preoccupation
opposite way
looking for the happiness of the other
take the defeat oneself
building tolerance, patience,
be only grudging of own delusions, faults,
strengthen my mind with patience
careful not to offend others
do not misuse the dharma
avoid using the teachings jst to promote/prove yourself

practice mind-reform without contradicting other commitments
avoid reckless behavior
avoid being bias
make changes to your aspiration intensify while remaining natural
do not critisise the faults of others
do not contemplate others faults
abandon all hope for results
abandon poisonous food
be grudging with your delusions
do not retaliate to abuse
do not wait in ambush
do not pinpoint the weaknesses of others
do not use others as scapegoats
do not missuse the dharma
never aim to be the quickest to the top
do not cause happiness by causing others suffering

on vacation from mundane goals, normal-victory
looking for something completely different out of all of their relationships. happiness of the other - let the enemy have the vicory
building your tolerance, and patience. only grudging about your own delusions
strengthen your mind of patience instead
in your actions, be careful not to humiliate anyone

be critical of your own thoughts, strengthen your mind of patience instead.
do not pinpoint the weaknesses of others.

The Jewel Tree of Tibet